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Rev Bill and Gregory's avatar

Excellent piece Sue. Practical and hopeful. Ironic that listening is considered by the polarized to be

selling out. Seems that believing in the possibility of mutual benefit is a key mind seat. Know any examples of getting opposite thinkers to that beginning? Must have something to do with trust building.

Bill Gregory

Sue Inches's avatar

Yes---building trust is essential. When groups work together with the intention to solve a problem, trust results. It requires a safe space and at least a willingness to try and solve a problem. I've seen skeptics come around. But if group members have a hardened position and are unwilling to work towards a fair and viable solution, there's no progress. I've participated in both kinds of groups!